{"id":28445,"date":"2026-03-27T17:35:58","date_gmt":"2026-03-27T17:35:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/?p=28445"},"modified":"2026-03-27T17:39:14","modified_gmt":"2026-03-27T17:39:14","slug":"who-is-my-wifes-cousin-adria","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/2026\/03\/27\/who-is-my-wifes-cousin-adria\/","title":{"rendered":"Who Is My Wife&#8217;s Cousin Adria?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I recently had a notification that my wife had a close relative match named Adria:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/2026-03-27-12_46_02-Settings.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-28446\" src=\"http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/2026-03-27-12_46_02-Settings.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"777\" height=\"198\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/2026-03-27-12_46_02-Settings.png 777w, http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/2026-03-27-12_46_02-Settings-300x76.png 300w, http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/2026-03-27-12_46_02-Settings-768x196.png 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 767px) 89vw, (max-width: 1000px) 54vw, (max-width: 1071px) 543px, 580px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Adria has two Boggy trees and one Butler tree, so I assume the match is on the Butler side:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/2026-03-27-12_48_38-LGDisplayExtensionWnd.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-28447\" src=\"http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/2026-03-27-12_48_38-LGDisplayExtensionWnd.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"971\" height=\"440\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/2026-03-27-12_48_38-LGDisplayExtensionWnd.png 971w, http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/2026-03-27-12_48_38-LGDisplayExtensionWnd-300x136.png 300w, http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/2026-03-27-12_48_38-LGDisplayExtensionWnd-768x348.png 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 767px) 89vw, (max-width: 1000px) 54vw, (max-width: 1071px) 543px, 580px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Fortunately, I had tested my wife&#8217;s Aunts before they passed away. When I check the Aunt with the biggest match I see that Adria is likely a grand niece. When I check Lorraine&#8217;s shared matches with the closest match to Adria, I find Jasmine:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/2026-03-27-12_53_35-LGDisplayExtensionWnd.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-28448\" src=\"http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/2026-03-27-12_53_35-LGDisplayExtensionWnd.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1123\" height=\"163\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/2026-03-27-12_53_35-LGDisplayExtensionWnd.png 1123w, http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/2026-03-27-12_53_35-LGDisplayExtensionWnd-300x44.png 300w, http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/2026-03-27-12_53_35-LGDisplayExtensionWnd-1024x149.png 1024w, http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/2026-03-27-12_53_35-LGDisplayExtensionWnd-768x111.png 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 767px) 89vw, (max-width: 1000px) 54vw, (max-width: 1071px) 543px, 580px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>This could be a short Blog, because the two people icon near Jasmine means that Ancestry likely knows how Lorraine and Jasmine are related:<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/2026-03-27-12_59_31-LGDisplayExtensionWnd.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-28450\" src=\"http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/2026-03-27-12_59_31-LGDisplayExtensionWnd.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"766\" height=\"948\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/2026-03-27-12_59_31-LGDisplayExtensionWnd.png 766w, http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/2026-03-27-12_59_31-LGDisplayExtensionWnd-242x300.png 242w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 706px) 89vw, (max-width: 767px) 82vw, 740px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>That meansn that the private box above Jasmine must be Adrai. The John Butler above was my wife&#8217;s Uncle Jake. Adria apparently lives in Illinois which is perhaps why my wife had lost touch.<\/p>\n<h2>Updating Jake<\/h2>\n<p>This would be a good time to update Jake in my Anestry tree:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/2026-03-27-13_02_08-LGDisplayExtensionWnd.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-28451\" src=\"http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/2026-03-27-13_02_08-LGDisplayExtensionWnd.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"959\" height=\"948\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/2026-03-27-13_02_08-LGDisplayExtensionWnd.png 959w, http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/2026-03-27-13_02_08-LGDisplayExtensionWnd-300x297.png 300w, http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/2026-03-27-13_02_08-LGDisplayExtensionWnd-768x759.png 768w, http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/2026-03-27-13_02_08-LGDisplayExtensionWnd-100x100.png 100w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 767px) 89vw, (max-width: 1000px) 54vw, (max-width: 1071px) 543px, 580px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t even have his wife.<\/p>\n<p>I added some information to my Tree. I see now that Jasmine, her mother and grandfather John have all tested at Ancestry. Here is a photo of Uncle Jake from Findagrave:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/2026-03-27-13_32_23-LGDisplayExtensionWnd.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-28452\" src=\"http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/2026-03-27-13_32_23-LGDisplayExtensionWnd.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"283\" height=\"386\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/2026-03-27-13_32_23-LGDisplayExtensionWnd.png 283w, http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/2026-03-27-13_32_23-LGDisplayExtensionWnd-220x300.png 220w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 283px) 100vw, 283px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/2026-03-27-13_38_14-LGDisplayExtensionWnd.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-28455\" src=\"http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/2026-03-27-13_38_14-LGDisplayExtensionWnd.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1152\" height=\"820\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/2026-03-27-13_38_14-LGDisplayExtensionWnd.png 1152w, http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/2026-03-27-13_38_14-LGDisplayExtensionWnd-300x214.png 300w, http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/2026-03-27-13_38_14-LGDisplayExtensionWnd-1024x729.png 1024w, http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/2026-03-27-13_38_14-LGDisplayExtensionWnd-768x547.png 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 767px) 89vw, (max-width: 1000px) 54vw, (max-width: 1071px) 543px, 580px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>Summary and Conclusions<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li>My wife&#8217;s match with Adria was a bit of a mystery at first<\/li>\n<li>Shared matches solved that problem as Adria&#8217;s daugther Jasmine had a good tree<\/li>\n<li>I was able to update my Ancestry tree for John &#8220;Jake&#8221; Butler and his children, most of whom are still living.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I recently had a notification that my wife had a close relative match named Adria: Adria has two Boggy trees and one Butler tree, so I assume the match is on the Butler side: Fortunately, I had tested my wife&#8217;s Aunts before they passed away. When I check the Aunt with the biggest match I &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/2026\/03\/27\/who-is-my-wifes-cousin-adria\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Who Is My Wife&#8217;s Cousin Adria?&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8,26],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-28445","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-butler-dna","category-autosomal-dna-butler-dna"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28445","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=28445"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28445\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":28456,"href":"http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28445\/revisions\/28456"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=28445"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=28445"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.jmhartley.com\/HBlog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=28445"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}